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(nodding head in disapproval)
I hope this was just for fun and that you are just bored but if this scenario is real..man…you and your sister aren’t using your brains or any common sense.
But I think this is fake..becuase no good parent would have this kind of mentality. Come on now!

In my opinion, you are a liar. I have no proof of this though, so please take no offense.
edit-after viewing your profile I am sure you are a liar. Were you trying to come up with a scheme that you knew would ellicit sympathy from women just to invent a tragic end and turn on them?
Being that all you did was make people think you are a troll or demonstrate you incompetence as a parent, I would say this was lose lose on your part.

how about this…your a horrible freakin mother! and so is your sister, the state should come and take all 3 kids away from you! and if this is made up, then your still sick for making it up…get help!

where do I begin on this one…. well let me say first off that if this is true then you DO NOT DESERVE TO BE A MOTHER!!! How could you find any reasoning in that tiny brain of yours to see fit to allow your child to be hurt much less be a part in him being harmed ? Did it ever occur to either of you idiots ( yes I am meaning you and your sister) that at his age he is going to be curious about the female body ?.. not to mention your niece was the instigator in this whole charade. What type of abuse did she receive as a punishment ? Lady I sincerely hope that someone who knows you has read this and reports you to the proper authorities.

That’s totally ridiculous!!OMG are you a total idiot that is your child and it’s you and your sister fault-you should be charged with abuse!!Use your head!!You all should have sat down and discussed the issue and her daughter shouldn’t be telling boys to touch her like that anyway, it’s her fault and she deserved to be disciplined for it, not him!Now he’ll be paying for this for the rest of his life!!Shame on you, I can’t believe you call yourself a mother-YOU are suppose to protect your children!!!

I think she’s trying to set us up. She asked the same question last week.

Sounds like someone needs to go to jail and isn’t your 12 yr old son.
Perhaps a woman in jail and a daughter in a juvenile home…

Who in their right mind would condone such a thing. As a matter of fact the police should be involved, Your child has been assaulted! Did the girl ever stop to think of the ramifications of her actions. Family of not, someone has to pay the medical bills, therapy afterwards. Daring someone is about control, That girl needs to address her issues as does her mother. Question here is did the other girl know what was going on. Your son made a poor choice and sadly has been taught a lesson that will be a life long one. I hope for his sake he will not come to distrust all girls in the future. The idea of taking someone out to the woodshed is outdated, research supports that two wrongs don’t make a right. As his mother do you not feel the slightest feeling of guilt for you to are to blame. You did it indirectly, so own it and show your son that his mother too must take responsibility for her actions

Here we go again. The eternal problems of being a male. We have a girl who dared a male to touch another girl’s breasts. So he does and now he is to blame. Had he refused, he would be in just as much trouble. Save the kid years and years of grief. Have both testicles removed. He will thank you in the long run.

I’m really disappointed that people have seen fit to just attack you for asking for advice here. Parenting is tough work, and sometimes when you’re at wit’s end, it’s hard to know what to do. I’m really glad you asked.
The real issues here are:
1. That your sister’s 13 year old is on her way to prostituting her 12 year old sister.
2. That your niece feels comfortable getting her sister into dangerous and degrading situations.
3. That a bunch of women in the family think it’s EVER ok for a guy to be kicked in the nuts, no matter what age.
4. That the kids don’t have a healthy respect for each other and other people and their body safety boundaries.
5. That your son is susceptible to peer pressure (in this case by his cousin).
WHY is he susceptible? It seems that he hasn’t learned the concept of EVERYONE (girls and boys!!) having the right to be safe and NEVER have their bodies (especially their private areas) touched without their own permission.
How will he and his cousins learn this?
By EXAMPLE.
You and your sister need to be clear about respecting other people’s bodies. You also need to insist that no man or woman of any age disrespects you OR your kids by letting them touch you/them without your/their consent.
(And if boundaries are crossed, then retaliating by crossing the perp’s boundaries is only going to discredit and undermine everything you’re trying to teach them about respect! That’s like hitting your kids for hitting other kids – it sends conflicting messages.)
The things you do AND the things you SAY must be CONSISTENT in promoting and demonstrating respect for people and their bodies.
Examine your own attitudes, figure out how to show and expect respect from others in a way that works (rather than insulting or harming), then be CONSISTENT in showing respect for everyone’s boundaries, and you’ll see the kids’ attitudes start to change.
* IMPORTANT* This might be hard to hear, but hear me out….. You also need to give your son a sincere apology, something along the lines of
“I was so angry that you disrespected your cousin, that I actually considered whether letting you get kicked in the nuts was a way for you to learn how very wrong it was. Now I see how much it hurt you, and I’m sorry. Moms screw up sometimes. I was so mad that I became blind to the fact that letting your cousin kick you would be giving her permission to disrespect YOUR body. I need to figure out with Aunt so-and-so how we can better help you kids learn how important it really is to respect other people and their bodies. But for now, I’m really sorry that you got hurt so bad.”
I’m not saying you “owe” your son an apology – it’s WAY more important than that. If he DOESN’T hear an apology from you, not only is he going to be incredibly hurt and angry with you, but the work you’ll be doing to teach all the kids to respect people by respecting their bodies will be completely falling on deaf ears. You may also be putting a brick in the rage/disrespect wall between you and him if you don’t. An apology from you, strange as it sounds, is actually MORE important right now than one from his cousin (though that’s important too.)
GOOD LUCK with all of this. Messes are hard to undo, but the kids are young enough that there’s still wiggle room for sorting it all out, with potentially great outcomes.
(P.S. apart from your apology to your son, the rest of this is not going to work if you have a controlling or abusive spouse or partner – you need to start there in correctig things first. Your son won’t learn to respect women if you surround yourself with men who don’t.)

Lady, you are one sick puppy. Your son is hurt becasue of you and no one else. You make the twisted decision to abuse him. You are lucky you are not in jail and he has not been taken away from you. The one that needs to be in trouble was the girl that dared him to touch the breast. Are you going to kick her in her vagina, too ?