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My Girlfriend Is Always Flirting With Others…help?!?

My girlfriend says that she is lesbian and loves me. However..she is always flirting with guys. She sees a guy she knows and hugs them and hangs on them. She will stand ina corner talking to them and flirting with them while me. We had issues back when she said she was bi because she was boy crazy. I broke up with her back then. She then tells me a few months later that she is completely lesbian and wants to get back together. I said yes but with a she better not do the same thing again. It isn’t as bad as the first time where she would go on and on about how she liked a boy while she was dating me. instead she just flirts with them in front of me while i exist. She says she loves me but…i don’t know…I am really confused. I want to talk to her about it but i don’t want to annoying. I am very conscious and shy. She flirts with other girls too. I am with that for the most part because she has always done that and my friends flirt with me randomly at school as well. So we are in agreement that it is as long as we don’t take it seriously. I was with it at first because she didn’t tell me what happens at school so i had nothing to be jealous about. But then…she started telling me about flirt that happens at school and how she flirted back. I am really hurt by it…even though my friends flirt with me i barley flirt back and when i do i don’t brag about it to her. This relationship hurts….and the sad part is..i still lover her….even after we broke up the first time i still loved her…i don’t know what to do! Can you guys give me some advice? Should i stay with her? Do you think she loves me like she says? How can i make this hurt less…?

6 Comments

  • Mar 19th 201004:03
    by karlyn

    try to talk to her
    most of the lesbians(like her) was very flirty
    warn her, if she still not changing, better let her go

  • Mar 19th 201004:03
    by Elii.

    No, this is not good at all. This is reminding me of one of my ex girlfriends I had last year. If your girlfriend is flirting with other people IN FRONT OF YOU…she isn’t a true girlfriend :/ If I was you I would end it, even if I loved her a lot, it isn’t good to keep getting hurt and also being quiet about it! Speak up! You should talk to her about this though, it really isn’t right to flirt with others when your already in love with someone. I wouldn’t do that, at all! If I really loved my gf I wouldn’t do that. And If she really loved you she wouldn’t do that. This isn’t such a great idea to flirt with others. Honestly, I think you two should just stop. I remember my girlfriend Daniella, and this was in the summer, we started dating the day before my birthday but we never hanged out. We probably did only for 3 times, we dated for a month I think but this girl sounded like a whore whenever he she speaked to me on the phone. Always! & she also always said to me how all the boys in our school always touched her and hurted her and all nthat! I found out it was all lies! When we went back to school she went out with like 5 boys already before 2010 even came up!!! It is pathetic! My ex gf was totally desperate. I today just realized it wasnt a real relationship. I say you should either have a very STRONG talk with your girl or break up with her. If you talk to her make sure what happens at school..does she still continue doing the same thing?or did she change? & when you break up with her tell her why & how you actually felt. This is horrible, I would never let this flirting prob get in my way from falling in love. :/
    Good Luck! I really hope it goes well!

  • Mar 19th 201006:03
    by Azian Playa

    What I noticed in these relationships is that always one girl is really lesbian (usually the ugly one) and the other one is just confused in life. If she’s flirting with guys she likes their attention and is into them. I don’t think she’s really a lesbian. Just confused.

  • Mar 19th 201007:03
    by JadedPis

    I say leave the betch cuz she gonna keep hurting you. settle down for someone who only loves you and would want to flirt and do everything with only you.

  • Mar 19th 201007:03
    by lost1234

    If she is going to be flirting with other people then she is not ready for a commitment i would leave her. My girlfriend does not flirt with others cause she wants me and only me.. hope this helped

  • Mar 19th 201008:03
    by hanakisa

    My girlfriend says that she is lesbian and loves me. However..she is always flirting with guys. She sees a guy she knows and hugs them and hangs on them. She will stand ina corner talking to them and flirting with them while ignoring me. We had issues back when she said she was bi because she was boy crazy. I broke up with her back then. She then tells me a few months later that she is completely lesbian and wants to get back together. I said yes but with a warning she better not do the same thing again. It isn’t as bad as the first time where she would go on and on about how she liked a boy while she was dating me. instead she just flirts with them in front of me while ignoring i exist. She says she loves me but…i don’t know…I am really confused. I want to talk to her about it but i don’t want to seem annoying. I am very self conscious and shy. She flirts with other girls too. I am okay with that for the most part because she has always done that and my friends flirt with me randomly at school as well. So we are in agreement that it is okay as long as we don’t take it seriously. I was okay with it at first because she didn’t tell me what happens at school so i had nothing to be jealous about. But then…she started telling me about every flirt that happens at school and how she flirted back. I am really hurt by it…even though my friends flirt with me i barley flirt back and when i do i don’t brag about it to her. This relationship hurts….and the sad part is..i still lover her….even after we broke up the first time i still loved her…i don’t know what to do! Can you guys give me some advice? Should i stay with her? Do you think she loves me like she says? How can i make this hurt less…?

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