I Like This Girl But…?
Ok, so this is sort of a long one:
First, I met this girl a few years back, and I went crazy. Crazy for her I mean. She was perfect, she had it all. I asked her out, she said yes, and everything was peaches…for about 3 months. Then she has to move, and not wanting to fall into the trap of a long distance relationship, especially with both our lives ahead of us (I was 18) we basically decided to break things off. On my part very reluctantly.
Fast forward about a year and I’m ready to do the whole relationship thing again, except this time I’m not the crazy one, and things get really ugly in the jealousy and moodiness departments. To make a long story short, its a huge mess that really messes me up, even though I really didn’t do anything wrong. I’m left depressed and feeling really insecure about everything.
Now last January girl number one suddenly comes back into my life like she never left and tells me she wants to start things up where they were left off! So I fed her some BS about how I wasn’t ready for a relationship after the mess I went through, I don’t think she really gets what I’m trying to say and I can tell it hurts her that she carried the flame for a guy who doesn’t return the favor.
The problem: I really do like this girl, like I said, she’s amazing, but I can’t tell if I just want to be her friend or more. She’s been dating other guys since then and I always feel jealous when I see her with them, but when I’m alone with her I never feel like making a move! Does anyone have any clue what’s wrong with me? Any ideas on how to figure out what I really want?
Mar 17th 2010 • 06:03
by prettyci
You’re not crazy,haha. Seems like you just want what you cant have, then once you have it , it’s old news.
You should be completley honest with her.
But you shouldnt beunsure about love, you know?
you should be sure because theres plenty of girls out there,
it doesnt have to come right away becuase you can be missing out
on someone else thats amazing and great for you. So just don’t waste your
time on something thats not worth while.
Maybe you and that girl are better off friends, but who knows if it meant to be something will happen.
hope i helped(:
Mar 17th 2010 • 10:03
by CC
Ok, so this is sort of a long one:
First, I met this girl a few years back, and I went crazy. Crazy for her I mean. She was perfect, she had it all. I asked her out, she said yes, and everything was peaches…for about 3 months. Then she has to move, and not wanting to fall into the trap of a long distance relationship, especially with both our lives ahead of us (I was 18) we basically decided to break things off. On my part very reluctantly.
Fast forward about a year and I’m ready to do the whole relationship thing again, except this time I’m not the crazy one, and things get really ugly in the jealousy and moodiness departments. To make a long story short, its a huge mess that really messes me up, even though I really didn’t do anything wrong. I’m left depressed and feeling really insecure about everything.
Now last January girl number one suddenly comes back into my life like she never left and tells me she wants to start things up where they were left off! So I fed her some BS about how I wasn’t ready for a relationship after the mess I went through, I don’t think she really gets what I’m trying to say and I can tell it hurts her that she carried the flame for a guy who doesn’t return the favor.
The problem: I really do like this girl, like I said, she’s amazing, but I can’t tell if I just want to be her friend or more. She’s been dating other guys since then and I always feel jealous when I see her with them, but when I’m alone with her I never feel like making a move! Does anyone have any clue what’s wrong with me? Any ideas on how to figure out what I really want?